After talking with so many folks who have crossed over, I gotta wonder, why do we wait until we die to love people? Why do we place so much importance on romantic love and marriage? How alienated are we from our brothers and sisters on the planet when we are brainwashed into this paradigm that puts sexual and romantic relationships up there with or above career in importance, and the attainment or development of all other relationships down there with stamp collecting? Why wait to open the floodgates of cosmic/divine love?